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22 February 2008, 1:15 PM
dodie
Joined 2 Jul 2007
76 posts

I have just been browsing the classified ads for jack russell puppies, can't cope with another one but I always like to have a look!

I only read the first 5 ads and two were dispicable!
First one: Man selling two 10 week old puppies and their mum free to a good home when puppies have gone!!

Second one: 3 year old Jack Russell bitch, being sold cos they live in the country and she likes to chase sheep so cannot be walked off lead!

It amazes me how these people have the nerve! I stopped looking cos it makes me so upset!

My jack russell is a real handful, but I would never think of getting rid of her! Sometimes I just have to sit and laugh or I would cry and never stop!! Especially after the fifth time she has jumped a five foot fence and ran off down the street after our cat!!
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22 February 2008, 1:39 PM
scosha37
Joined 24 Sep 2004
825 posts

ahh i do the same i always look at ads not that i looking just being nosey and i know what you mean it is sad some of them say like new baby or wont get on with my whatever, there thousands of pepo out there thats had pets while and during be pregnant i was one of them coz there like family, yeah there will be pepo out there that are real but yeah i know what you mean i talk out loud to my self when i see them as if they could hear me ..:p
Just hope they all get a good loving homes xx

take care xx be happyxx
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22 February 2008, 1:56 PM
Angel89
Joined 13 Feb 2008
97 posts

Thats hurrendous!!

I wouldn't even contemplate getting rid of any of mine just because i was pregnant.. unless it was because i was incredibly poor, but in that case you probabaly shouldn't have the pets in the first place if you were.

And to just give an animal away free to a "good home" is plain ignorance. It's just a bargain to people who can't actually afford to buy and look after animals. I don't think these ads should ever get published!

There we go i've said it!

Nix and co xxx
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22 February 2008, 2:43 PM
Boots
Joined 14 Feb 2008
53 posts

I have always found this most annoying, I wish people would do their homework before getting a dog. Then get a dog suited to your lifestyle and not just because you like the look on them. I'm sure this would save a large number of dogs having to be rehomed.
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22 February 2008, 5:12 PM
Angel89
Joined 13 Feb 2008
97 posts

It most definately would Boots!

Whats more is elderly dogs. Why do people think that once their dog gets old that it's not worth having anymore and send it off to a shelter. When i was volenteering at the RSPCA there were more elderly dogs left tied at the end of the lane without food or water, just left, just because they were old and the owners think lets get rid of this old useless dog and buy a new puppy. It's sick!
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22 February 2008, 9:04 PM
Dee
Joined 23 Jun 2007
1187 posts

the excuses annoy me too why cant they just saty i dont want it anymore at least its the truth

and as for a dog chashing sheep stupid reason why cant they train it not to or dont walk thru fields with livestock in simple i used to keep my horses on a sheep farm and had a pure collie who chased sheep so i taught her not to simple reallyi had countless animals whislt pregnant with both my 2 little ones including horses and i rode till i was 24 weeks gone with my youngest (eldest one i could hardly walk ) and walked my dogs miles too with one baby and beng pregnant so whats the problem there just excuses arent they
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23 February 2008, 2:20 AM
Nobby
Joined 26 Feb 2007
3205 posts

There are some unscrupulous people out there, waiting to make the next big buck..but there are some genuine people out there too! Most of the pets i have seen advertised free to a good home, usually have something wrong with their behaviour/lack of training etc and the owner just wants rid of it quickly. Having sed that, i've never paid for an animal until recently and yes it was coz i culdnt afford to buy a highly priced pet - but none of my animals have ever wanted for anything. Just coz you are on a low income does not mean you shouldnt own animals. Rich people abuse/dispose of/do not care for animals every day too!
There are a lot of opportunists out there - if you advertise your animal free to a good home, you will not necesserily end up with the right type of person to rehome to..but there are a few genuine people out there too! :-)
Also just for the record, i love oldies too - i really dont understand people who have a cat or dog for 8yrs or so, then decide to rehome/abandon it! Why bother keeping it for that long in the first place?! If it wasnt for the fact that i would know their last days were imminent, i would love to foster oldies. They are amazing animals, i just find it so painful when they inevitably get ill or die.


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23 February 2008, 1:05 PM
shell
Joined 3 Jun 2007
558 posts

Browsing the classifieds is how I got my new Persian. First of all got told that he was gone but then got another email and the rest is history. There was an ad on here free to good home persian female and her cross breed kitten I enquired about these but was told they had gone. The next minute their is an ad for the same kitten For sale £150 as although the mum got on with the dog the kitten didnt.This is what happens when you give pets away free. At least my boy is safe and going nowhere


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23 February 2008, 7:46 PM
Nobby
Joined 26 Feb 2007
3205 posts

Hiya, i see what you are saying - that was really bad. It is always risky giving animals away, but i know if i ever took on an animal - free or not - i would have thought it through first, and the plan is that they will stay forever! Some people just dont think it through before taking on a pet, getting unsuitable animals or breeds, or they just dont consider the amount of care and time they will need. What i was saying before is that you always get people like that, whether the animal was free or not. Either that or the owner lies about how suitable the animal is for you, then you get it home and find out otherwise!
Sad about that poor kitten, getting passed from pillar to post though.


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25 February 2008, 1:58 PM
chrissie
Joined 3 Feb 2008
79 posts

it is sad all them ads with exuses i had 8 children 3 dogs 4 cats 5rabbits 4 horses i would not part with any of them my children grew up loving animals i taught them to show animals respect
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25 February 2008, 10:12 PM
scosha37
Joined 24 Sep 2004
825 posts

I agree with crissy that the way i was brought up and the same as my kids have, but saying this i had to rehome a african grey to a freind but i still see her when i want and is doing great, but i just seen a ad for a cat that was 9 years old and they have to rehome it as family member has a aligy its a shame that an animal is that age and have to rehomed.

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25 February 2008, 11:03 PM
Tracey
Joined 21 Mar 2007
77 posts

Someone was giving away an 11yr old dog the other week, i was thinking omg how can you give a dog away at age, way too sad. My daughter got a dog off here the other week that was free to good home cos it didnt get on with the cat, beautiful dog it is and my daughter has two cats and the dog takes no notice at all of the cats.


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25 February 2008, 11:12 PM
scosha37
Joined 24 Sep 2004
825 posts

mmmm makes you wonder then eh if its ok with your girls cats yeah its sad to see that just hope they get good homes.
i hate to hear the ones that are free to good home then you see them for sale in the next few days you say...av seen that dog b4 then you click, yeah sad thank god that humans dont go down this road!....or do they..tee heee:)

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25 February 2008, 11:21 PM
Tracey
Joined 21 Mar 2007
77 posts

Well she took the dog to the vets cos they last owners said it was 2yrs ago since it had its jabs and the vet checked the dog over and its teeth are in a state and some will need removing, also its knee cap keeps popping out and it may need an operation so we have to keep an eye on it. She wants to get her spayed so the vet said that they could do the teeth at the same time


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26 February 2008, 0:34 AM
alfie01
Joined 17 Jul 2007
391 posts

The saddest ad I saw was for an 8 yr old poodle free to good home owner had died and family did not want it They had approx 90 calls in 1 hr I wonder how many were genuine They gave to the lady next door to where it lived and its doing gr8 yes I did phone and they were really nice to me The lady said I must of been about the 100th or so to ring up and the paper only out an hour but somehad foned b4 the shops opened lol 6;00am
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20 May 2008, 8:14 AM
doobs
Joined 4 May 2008
13 posts

i am browsing the adverts at the moment looking for a new jack russell bitch puppy.Sadly mine died on april 11th through some idiot leaving rat poison in the woods, which slowly killed her.
I am amazed by people who want to offload their jacks just because they cannot handle them. my view is, if you cannot train one do not get one. these dogs are the most loyal and fun dogs of any breed if brought up with lots of love and discipline.

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20 May 2008, 9:04 AM
shell
Joined 3 Jun 2007
558 posts

That is so tragic poor girl. I agree too many people get puppys and off load them when they make a mess of their training(or lack of it)Good luck in your quest for a new friend


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20 May 2008, 3:13 PM
Honey
Joined 11 Oct 2007
30 posts

Hi
i seen a advert a while ago about a st bernard that keeps chasing the sheep so they are selling it. St bernards arnt designed to go on farm and arnt the brightest of animals, you think people would pick a dog for what it can do and not because it looks nice.
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20 May 2008, 5:27 PM
Nobby
Joined 26 Feb 2007
3205 posts

Do you have a have a dog which fits in wth the surroundings though?! Ive always lived on farms, but never had a collie..I would quite like to have a st bernard though..if i could afford one!! ]
As for chasing sheep - as sed before,dont let it offlead near to livestock. My cocker chases sheep, well, anythign which moves really! I just dont let her offlead in fields which are close. Some people really do not have the common sense they were born with - most of the excuses on the classifieds are treatable, they just cant be bothered to take the time to train etc..then they go and buy another puppy!!
Give me a ready-trained oldie, anyday! lol
The rat poison death sounds horrendous. We had that left out for our cats by a neighbour and it made them very ill. Didnt kill them though, luckily. It was removed after i voiced very loudly and publicly that i woudl be prosecuting should any of them die...!!


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23 May 2008, 10:42 PM
lee
Joined 28 Apr 2008
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Hi I came on here the other night hoping to see some reassuring posts from people who've successfully rehomed dogs as mine was going to a new home the following day but after seeing this thread I was distraught.
I'm one of the terrible people you've discussed who's rehoming their dog because I'm pregnant and I just wanted to give you the perspective from my side. While I agree that reasons such as chasing sheep are poor excuses it's hard to fully go into the reasons in a short advert so please don't prejudge, the advert my husband placed on here can't possibly reflect how upset we are about having to rehome our dog. It's not just that I'm pregnant but we also have another much smaller dog, the 2 of them get on well but very occasionally the dog we're rehoming attacks her. The fights are frightening and would probably have resulted in the death of our smaller dog had we not been around to physically seperate them. She has needed to see a vet several times and I've had to go to A&E after being inadvertently bitten when trying to seperate them. What if that had been our baby caught in the middle? I don't feel that either of our dogs would have ever deliberately harmed our baby but when the dog attacks she goes into a blind rage and doesn't see what gets in her way, other than this she is such a gentle loving dog who's so well behaved. We've tried everything to stop this happening and the fights have got less frequent but still happen up until the last one about a month ago. Our vet told us some time ago that this behaviour is natural with 2 bitches and there's little we could do, the kindest option would be to rehome our dog before one of them was seriously hurt and we've put it off for a long time as we couldn't face letting her go.
We have not rehomed our dog because she's an inconvenience or because it's the easy option. Believe me it would have been far easier to do nothing and manage by keeping our dog away from the other dog and our baby but what kind of life would it be for her to be shut away on her own all the time. Instead we've tried to do the right thing and it's been far from easy. I will miss our dog so much, she went to her new home last night and I can't believe she's not my dog anymore. I've hardly slept through worrying about her and have been so upset at the thought of letting her go my family have been worried about the health of me and my unborn baby. We had our dog 5 years and I loved her to bits, she was constantly at my side and rehoming her is the hardest thing I've ever done.
We advertised her on here after spending months fruitlessly asking family and friends if they could give her a home. I couldn't face just handing her over to kennels particularly as we got her from kennels when she was 6 months old and she seemed terrified there. We thought that advertising her free to a good home was the right thing to do since we didn't want to make money out of her but after seeing the posts on here I'm terrified that this was the wrong decision. We've tried to make sure she's gone to a good home and took her to meet her new owners several times before she went permanently but I'm so worried they won't treat her well. We've made it clear if things don't work out we want her returning to us but now she's not our dog anymore we don't have any say. We will be phoning them to see how she is and they've been kind enough to say we're welcome to go see here which I would love to do but don't know if this is best for the dog, will it just confuse her?
Our dog has always been good around kids and she would have been great with our baby I'm sure. I feel it's good for kids to be brought up around pets and when our baby is old enough he/she will be taught to respect animals and to be gentle with our remaining dog and to leave her alone when she doesn't want to be disturbed. Before our baby is born I will be taking our dog so see my little neice regularly so she's used to kids as I don't want her to feel confused when the baby arrives.

Sorry for the long rambling post but I just wanted to put the views of someone rehoming their dog across and ask that we are not all tarred with the same brush.
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